You may feel proud of your achievements when you succeed in reaching your goals. Unfortunately, when you fail, you may start feeling pathetic and not worthy of respect. Change your attitude and love yourself 24/7.
You need to learn to enjoy being with people
Lack of self-respect makes people isolate themselves from others. They do not like to be seen by people. As a rule, their mood is low and they feel stressed and depressed. They fear that when they are seen in such a pathetic state, their friends will want to find out what has happened and how they could help them out. That would make them feel even more inferior to others. Solitude is the only state in which they feel comfortable. If you enjoy being around people as much as being on your own, it means you have no problems with self-respect.